sex / sexuality


< Creator 8QA > Hmmm. (audience laugher) This is another area that you will find changes! As many of you have already found, that there is a time of disempassionment in your own sexual drive. This is not caused by age, to answer the one who just thought the question (reading someone’s thought). (audience laughter) Indeed as you move from the old energy into the new, as you go from duality into this new earth, you release many things. In the past you may have been passionate about the making of love, which you call sex. Most of you will go through a period of withdrawal, of wanting to be by yourself, of not wanting to interact with another human in this fashion. You have found that you do not so much care about it and at times it is even less than pleasurable.

In the story of Catherine earlier tonight, she cried for this was something too that had gone from her life. She had enjoyed a strong emotional and strong physical relationship in the past. Now these things were gone and she felt there was something wrong with her. She looked at those who she worked with, those who she knew, and she saw them still caring about things like sex. She saw them still caring about things at work. She saw them still involved in family matters and in family dramas. She wondered what was wrong with her that she did not care so much. Catherine was simply moving from the old energy into the new.

As you receive the fruit of the rose, as you bring back the passion that is your birthright, you will find… and we laugh here - we are cracking up here as you would say - (audience laughter) you will find a new type of sexuality within your being that we are not so much allowed to talk about now. (Cauldre is arguing with Tobias about pursing this subject). That is why we are laughing, for there is great humor in this. It will not be like the old type of making love, the old type of sex that you were used to. This will be something new. (answering a question in someone’s thoughts) For the one who just asked the question, yes, you will be able to experience this with somebody who has not moved into the new energy because this will be something that comes from within you. So you do not need to go out and find a partners who are only in the new energy.

< Creator 11QA > On our side of the veil we talk much of sex, much as you do. We talk about your sex lives (audience laughter) and yes, there are times dear friends, when we even are available when you are making love like this. Oh, we stand around and smile. (much audience laughter) At times there is such a tremendous symphony of energy that takes place between two people that care about each other. And to the one that asked the question (telepathically) just now, it does not matter to us one bit if it is male and female, or two members of the same sex. We are not prejudiced in that regard. What we enjoy is the love that is made between the humans. Oh, it is like your finest music, and we like to watch. (audience laughter) But not in the voyeuristic way you may think. It draws us in and we are amazed at what you are creating. The expressions of love, the feelings of tenderness, all of this, it is amazing.

Dear friends, as we said earlier today, when Spirit and All That Is reflected for even a brief moment about "Who Am I?" it created, instantly it created, two separate beings, the King and the Queen. They looked each other in the eye and connected in the heart and loved each other so much that they created an offspring called Jack. You are Jack. The love of Spirit brought you forth. You brought this attribute to Earth in a biological way. When two humans love each other, they can create offspring like Spirit created you. Even when offspring are not created, there is tremendous love and tremendous energy that is created.

The energy that is created through the making of love between two humans does not then go out into the thin air and dissolve or go away. The energy, dear friends, of making love between humans is collected by Angels. Then it is delivered in the appropriate manner into the new creation, the new universe that you are creating even at this very moment. This is the most potent of all energies that is used in creating the second circle that you are in. You started with a void, you are now building a second circle. As we have said, one day the first circle, the first creation, will move into the second circle, the second creation that you are building now. The most potent energy for this is the energy when two humans make love. That is why we like to watch! (audience laughter).

Conversely, dear friends, when there is sex and it does not involve love; and when there is sex that involves control or abuse of another; when there is dominance from one to the other and there is addiction to this; this also attracts energy. It does not attract the type of Angels and entities that you like to work with. It attracts ones that are rather earthbound, ones whose energy you would not like so much. You would call it "dark." They will converge around this controlling type of sex and they will be fed the energy from that also. Again, we caution the use of terms here for we talk in symbols many times. But in that type of sex, in that type of situation, an energy is produced that would feed what you would call the dark entities.

< Creator 11QA > Conversely, dear friends, when there is sex and it does not involve love; and when there is sex that involves control or abuse of another; when there is dominance from one to the other and there is addiction to this; this also attracts energy. It does not attract the type of Angels and entities that you like to work with. It attracts ones that are rather earthbound, ones whose energy you would not like so much. You would call it "dark." They will converge around this controlling type of sex and they will be fed the energy from that also.

Again, we caution the use of terms here for we talk in symbols many times. But in that type of sex, in that type of situation, an energy is produced that would feed what you would call the dark entities. And we thank you for your question. And do not be so concerned that we will be coming into your bedroom all of the time. (audience laughter)

< Ascension 11 > On the other hand, dear family, as you behold the song of your heart, and you develop this new clarity, you will also be able to have a new, and full, and joyful experience with other things in your life. The clarity will help you resonate with music like you have never felt before. We will help you go into the depths of things like taste. Ah, indeed for the one who is asking over here… yes, sex, making love will be more fulfilling than what you ever experienced. There will be a clarity to it. It will not just be a physical act. It will now be a complete act that involves your physical being, your emotional being, and your spiritual being.

< DivineHuman 11QA > Sex is one of the greatest ways to keep a human from discovering how divine they are. There have been so many energies of guilt, and shame, and abuse associated with sex. When you open up sexually, whether it is only to yourself or to another person, when you open up, then your divinity can come and play with you. It can dance. But, as long as there are these heavy burdens of guilt, and doubt, and abuse on you, it is very difficult for your divineness to come through.

One of the greatest expressions of divinity is what you would call sex. You gave this to yourself, this grand pleasure. In the moment of orgasm, energy, divine energy, flows throughout you. And, if you are with a partner who shares, who is fulfilled like you… oh, dear ones, New Energy is truly created!

So, let there be no more shame around sex. Let there be no more abuse around sex. Let it be open. Let you, Shaumbra, be the ones who teach it, because we know you have gone through some of the nastiest and most difficult experiences with it. So, be the teachers now. Be the teachers of love. Thank you.

< DivineHuman 11QA > Sex is one of the greatest ways to keep a human from discovering how divine they are. There have been so many energies of guilt, and shame, and abuse associated with sex. When you open up sexually, whether it is only to yourself or to another person, when you open up, then your divinity can come and play with you. It can dance. But, as long as there are these heavy burdens of guilt, and doubt, and abuse on you, it is very difficult for your divineness to come through.

< NewEnergy 2QA > There was such an energy attached to the darkness of sex, particularly by the churches. They taught that sex was not a good act. It was only done for producing other humans, and it was not meant for pleasure. Women were taught that they should not have pleasure.

This is a very sad thing, for indeed this is one of the finest parts of being human, where you can be together with another - or just yourself - and truly open up. It opens up all of your senses. It opens up your divine senses as well. But, just like Jesus being placed on the cross - which is the symbol of divine and human intersection - there has been dark energy placed on this thing you would call sex.

Sex is one of the great ways of opening yourself to trust… and to love… and to feelings… and to divinity. If you want to feel your divinity come into play, then open yourself totally when you are making love. So, we see this as a wonderful thing for you.

< NewEnergy 3QA > In the early days of Lemuria and even into the days of Atlantis, sex and reproduction were two different things, you see… different orifices. So, that you did not need to worry about getting pregnant by having pleasure. Through all of this programming and all of the struggling that humanity has gone through, they were combined into a single organ. And, they were also placed near the anus of the body. They were all put together in the same area. You are eliminating wastes from the same part of your body that you are trying to reproduce and enjoy pleasure. Dear friends, it is time for all of this to change.

There was a time when you could enjoy the physical, emotional, and spiritual pleasures together in a grand orgasm, in a beautiful, wonderful sharing with each other, or by yourself. This has been so distorted.! So, we ask you, in particular - all of you - to go out and begin the new work in this area. Do it without shame. Do it boldly. You will see how quickly people respond to it. (audience laughter) You will see that people are craving for the remembrance of Home. How do you think the quickest way to have this remembrance is? It is through the human sexual experience. This will bring about the remembrance of Home faster than anything.

< NewEnergy 5QA > New Energy relationships will be based on experiencing a whole new type of sex, one that is fulfilling and gratifying for both, one that is a sharing of energies rather than a robbing of energies. New Energy relationships will be - how to say - take place physically, but the two will be connected energetically in a whole New way. In the New unions of two people - whether it is male and female, female-female, or male and male - this will bring in a whole different type of angel runner energy into their relationship. Because they are working so closely together, it allows more of us on our side to facilitate what their New Energy passion is.

< Embodiment 6QA > It is a subject quite… it could take up days worth of time. It is an important subject right now. And, it is one that I, Tobias, am - how to say - not an expert at from my times as a human. I will have to admit to all of you that I was afraid of sexuality when I walked upon the Earth, particularly in my latter lifetimes. Sex was considered something that was perhaps wrong. It was simply there for propagation, for creating children. But, because of my very deep religious convictions, I did not have an open mind or an open-heart about sexuality. And, Cauldre is laughing because he sees the picture. He's calling me "old prude." (audience laughter)

That being said, we don't feel any of you should place any rules or restrictions about sexuality. In other words, you shouldn't say that it has to be this way or it has to be that. There is not a right or a wrong in it from our concern. However, as a Creator and as a human who has a sense of responsibility, understand the implications with your mate. If your mate feels comfortable with this, that is one thing. If they are not, then you have some decisions to make with yourself.

There is nothing wrong with having multiple partners. However, many have abused this in the past, for they have sought to take energy and power from other people. Sexuality is the fastest way to abuse another person, to literally take their energy, to use it to feed yourself. Sexuality can be a highly addictive energy.

< Embodiment 10QA > And, so many of you have controls and limitations also when it comes to sexuality, too much to even get into a discussion here. You have infinite controls. Most in that was placed there, Shaumbra, the sexual controls that you have, because you were protecting yourself. So, you shut down. Now, it is time to open up. Try doing it a little bit different way. And, we are not speaking to you. We are speaking to all of Shaumbra.

< Clarity 4 > Sex… you always like to talk about sex. So, let's discuss it. It's not just about sex. You are feeding yourself somehow. You're bringing energy in, perhaps the energy of love from the other person, perhaps the energy of physical satisfaction. But, there are more; there are other layers and levels, other things that are happening. If you could - and not dishonor your partner - take a moment while you are engaging in love and sex. Take a moment and say, "What is happening here?" Don't tell them that's what you're thinking at the time (some laughter). But, say, "How am I being fed? How is my spirit, how is my reality, my consciousness being fed at that moment?"

< Clarity 4QA > Indeed… the physical act of sex is a minor by-product of sexual energies. It is a way - and a very small way - of expressing or experiencing sexual energy. But, sexual energy is perhaps the most potent of any of the psychic energies that there are. It is used in many, many different ways. It depends on the person.

Sexual energies can be used creatively and have nothing to do with the physical act of having sex. Sexual energies can be used to basically control others, and unfortunately is used extensively that way. It is used to basically enslave another. Sexual energies are how spells - the effective spells - are placed. Spells that have to do with incantations and potions are nothing in terms of their potency as sexual energies are.

We are literally going to explore in depth the entire gamut of sexual energies… how they are created… how they are brought in… how they feed, both the masculine and feminine portions of yourself… how they can be used to feed creativity… or bondage or hostage with another… how they are used to feed the victim and the victimizer. We are going to be doing this in this workshop that we're going to be conducting in a few months of time. We don't want to get into too many of the details here right now because it is one of the most extensive subjects that we will ever cover with Shaumbra.

We are going to initiate the foundation energy for this by our request in this land of Mexico, which holds many of the old trapped sexual energies, particularly from Atlantis. We're going to work with a small group. And, from there this workshop, and what is learned there and what is brought out there, will be expanded and be brought to many other places.

We're going to discuss how the masculine and feminine energies, in a sense, have been separate, why they have been separate, and what happens specifically when they are brought back together. And, it is not always an easy thing to do because you are so used to carrying either a male body or a female body. And, you are used to generally drawing off either masculine or feminine energies. And, through this workshop we are going to talk about feeding these energies back together.

We're going to talk about why so many still continue to carry the wounds, the sexual wounds, with them, and why so many are continuing to allow themselves to be controlled by sexual energy, even though they're becoming enlightened spiritual beings. There is still that element of the sexual victimization that is taking place. And, there is a very strong reason, a very potent reason for this. So, we are going to be covering this in great detail and then expanding the work out.

It is - how to say - one of the most difficult and in-depth and even painful subjects that we're going to be covering with Shaumbra. And, we have to remind all of you that there is a big difference between sex and sexual energies. View them more as sex as a physical thing; sexual energies are a very type of psychic, very powerful energy.

< Clarity 5 > One of the things that holds so many of you back are things that you don't even recognize. There are still some levels of old vows and oaths that you have taken in the past, past meaning this lifetime. Some of you even took vows and oaths last week. There are some of those that are still holding you back from past lifetimes, lifetimes when you said, "I will never…" and then fill in the blank, lifetimes when you vowed to - how to say - some of you vowed to never enjoy sex. You took a vow, a holy vow for a religious order that "I will not enjoy sex." Some of you said you will not have abundance. There is an old overlay that said in order to discover God you had to be poor, you had to do without. And, it served a purpose for a while, but that too is last week's news. It is time to let go of that.

< Clarity 8QA > However, that being said, there are going to be times then, as you're going through the disconnect, where when you do have sex with a partner that it is going to be so open and so free and so beyond some of the old methods and rituals that were used before. It becomes such a discovery and a joy now, so open that it is beyond any of the sex that you have known before. And humans tend to follow a very interesting and very boring pattern right now for sex.

We have actually timed it here... and we would throw this out to any researchers... typical human sex lasts 11 1/2 minutes, on average - and that includes the entire process, sometimes even taking the clothes off! There are a few steps that the human reaches and goes through, and they tend to repeat these same boring steps over and over, and their whole goal is to have an orgasm. But actually they don't even understand orgasm. It is generally just a physical release that they are looking for. That is not truly an orgasm at all, so ... oh Cauldre ... He always says to me, "This is like listening to your father talk about sex" - and indeed it is!

But you're going to find that it provides a whole new experience with sexuality. And it's not just about a physical need or a release but now is going to combine the very soul of both of you. But also understand, as incongruent as it sounds, then you're going to desire times where you don't want any sort of physical touch at all. While it seems to be totally at odds, there's reasons for this right now.

< Teacher 4 > All in a way of saying that there are many forces on Earth that do not want this to happen. They are very satisfied with the power that the masculine has over the feminine. They are very satisfied with the way that the masculine energy basically has a type of control over politics, over religion, over so many of the affairs of the world. And there are many who are vested into the feminine energy because they can play games. There are sexual implications. There are a certain amount of very provocative and seductive energies associated with it. So there are some who are more weighted or balanced towards the feminine who do not want to see the reuniting of these energies at all.

< Teacher 9QA > All Shaumbra have the potential to understand the true magnificence of the sexual energy and to understand that, more than anything, it is just self love. It is not necessarily physical, not even necessarily about what you would term pleasure.

Pleasure - we could do a long dissertation about that - but pleasure ... there's still very old Atlantean implants based on pleasure. It is a trigger. Used inappropriately it can be a method for stealing energy from others, entrapping them, manipulating them and controlling them. So there is always that fine line, that fine balance. You have to answer the question within yourself.

I would give you one hint though. If it is just about sex, whether it is in a physical act with a physical human or in the perception of a physical act with a non-human, I would take another look at it, because there is so much more to sex than the physical. Sex can be enjoyed ... Saint-Germain says he can bring a person to a point of orgasm without it becoming physical or even what you would say is even sexual. It is an energy exchange that is equal and balanced, but more than anything else, has to start at home. It is about self love.

What happens if you are not in a place of self love, when you go out and have physical or even non-physical sexual relations you will find yourself ... you're going to be feeding off of others. You're going to be looking for completion. When you can absolutely love yourself then you will absolutely understand what this whole thing is about energy exchanging and you won't be using terms like "divine prostitute" anymore.

< QuantumLeap 5QA > But in the reality of the one who lived on Earth as a human, I have to say … she loved sex. (laughter) And why shouldn't she? It is a sacred experience. It is about sharing at all levels, not just physical, but emotional and even mental and every level, spiritual, with another human. It is the greatest gift perhaps that humans gave themselves when they came to Earth. They knew it would be tough duty down here, so they gave themselves sex to be able to enjoy it more fully.

So I think we all know the real answer, and it is fun being able to talk about it here. But why should sex be shameful? It should be totally sacred and totally enjoyed. It should never be used to steal energy from another person. You should never use sex to disempower somebody else, and more so for Shaumbra don't let them use it to take away from you.

If you're going to share sex with somebody - share your bodies and every part of you - start with some breathing before ripping off your clothes. (laughter) Even after you rip off your clothes, before you - how do you say - engage, do a little bit more breathing. When you engage with each other, a little bit more breathing. You will have the greatest orgasm that you have ever had. So breathe that one in! (laughter) Thank you.

< Master 8 > Yeshua woke up on the cross, and in that moment released the physical body, which by the way, 2,000 years ago you had to do it that way. You don't have to do it that way now. He released the physical body and he really came to life. He went on merrily with Mary Magdalene. They had children together, even though he didn't have a physical body. Beautiful children. Yes, you can have sex even when you don't have a body. Very true. You have better sex sometimes. (looks at Linda) Not always.

< (Next) 7 > Alcohol, sex, these are triggers that start right there (pleasure center) and then go into your brain, and then you say, "I'm addicted, therefore, I'm flawed, therefore I have to keep suffering until I get stronger or better. I need to go out and find some savior or messiah. How could I possibly be God also because I smoke cigarettes?!" Get over it. I've known a lot of really good drunk Ascended Masters. (laughter) But you burden yourself with this guilt, "There's something wrong. I'm a pervert," not me, but you. "I'm a pervert. I eat too much. I eat too little." This was all part of the programming, therefore, you're not free; therefore, you buy into all that crap, and it's so easy to let it go.

< (Next) 8 > If that seduction gets into your sexual your sexual make-up, and into this little place in the mind There's a little place in your mind, not a physical literal place, but part of your thinking is tied into sex, and that's why they say sex can be addictive. It's not, but the mind has a way of believing it is. The mind has a very interesting way of using this natural seduction. Seduction energy can be great; it can really invigorate you. It doesn't have to be bad. But the mind can trap it into this little part of its limited understanding of things, and it can continue to trigger a being based on sexual fulfillment, but that fulfillment is very, very temporary.

When the sexual fulfillment - and I'm not just talking about physical, but there is an energetic, a spiritual fulfillment to sex - when it is false, when it is put into this brain pattern, it can never be fulfilled. So the person is constantly feeling this seduction, the sex. No matter how much sex they have, they can never be fulfilled. That part of it is addictive. In other words, the brain has gotten into a pattern it doesn't know how to get out of.

< (Next) 8 > That is perhaps one of the greatest gifts. If there were seven wonders of being a human, that is perhaps one of them - the ability to completely, wholly dive into an experience that involves body, mind, spirit - for indeed when you truly have sex, it involves every part of you. But theoretically, an angelic being coming here for the first time would be absolutely in love with this beautiful thing. They would consider the beauty of it. But look at how it's gotten to be negative and perverted and twisted and distorted.

< (Next) 8 > Humans don't even know what to think about sex anymore. They just know they're driven to it, but is that really, for the most part, fulfilling? Is that really what you, the angels, intended it to be? And this whole idea of masturbation! What's wrong with loving yourself in every way? Is there something wrong with loving yourself physically? In Atlantis, in some of the earlier better days, the young ones were taught to honor their bodies in every way, if you know what I mean, long before they could ever have a partner. How can you be intimate with somebody if you're not comfortable with being intimate with yourself?

< Discovery 4 > Did Yeshua have sex with others after he left his community, after he left the Yahad? Yes, absolutely he did. He had sex, he masturbated. And he felt guilty about it until he realized the love of Self, the acceptance of Self. Until he realized somebody else placed this crap on him that sex and playing with yourself under the table are bad. It took him a long time to get over it and realize that he could love himself. He could touch himself. He could feel himself. He could pleasure himself, and he could really love himself. Absolutely. And he would go on, my dear, to teach this to many, many others. And when he sat in front of some of the groups, the reaction very similar – gasp! – “Ohhh! You can't talk about this.” But he did, because he said, “Dear brother, dear sister, it's about loving thyself. Then you will come to understand the love that your soul has for you.”