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< Creator 5 > Oh, we have said to you in this group before, it is really no longer about you. Do you understand that? You have cleared. What you are journeying through now, you are doing for the love of Spirit and the love of all others who follow. The afflictions and the challenges that you have now are truly not your own. You are accepting these on behalf of All That Is. You are accepting this integration of the fourth element in at this time, knowing that it is difficult on your physical being, knowing it is difficult on your human being.

< Creator 7 > It should be no surprise to you that things in your daily life right are difficult now. It is not just about you! It is not just you in this lifetime that you are healing. You have already healed hundreds and hundreds and hundreds of past lives. Most of those, dear friends, have healed and left, and Gaia is releasing the energy that has been stored in the Earth. What you are truly healing right now is this time of the building of the void, the time between the Wall of Fire and coming to your Earth. You are healing this time when you were bouncing around your universe, experiencing the beginnings of mass and matter. It was a time when you could freely travel through time and space, but you did not like what was happening. This was a great time of chaos.

< Creator 10 > We ask you to remember these words for much of where we are going with you will revolve around this: Dear friends, it is not about you any more. It is not about you! You thought it was, but it is not. We will spend much of our third series dealing with this. You will come into new enlightenments and understanding of who you are and why you are here. You will feel it at the very deepest levels within you - it will be almost like a shock, almost like a cold shower - when one day you realize it has not been about you and it is not about you any more. You will realize that what you have been doing is for a love of Spirit, a love of All That Is.

< Creator 10 > You will come into new enlightenments and understanding of who you are and why you are here. You will feel it at the very deepest levels within you - it will be almost like a shock, almost like a cold shower - when one day you realize it has not been about you and it is not about you any more. You will realize that what you have been doing is for a love of Spirit, a love of All That Is. This will be a fine day. We will be here with you when this occurs.

< Creator 11 > This space fills up with many who are simply waiting for you to say it is time to release the ancestral karma as well. Do you know that within your being, and within the setup of your life, it is not only your soul karma but it also your family karma? It is karma for things that were done five generations ago and ten generations ago and a hundred. It is carried forward in the biology. Indeed you see it with diseases that are prevalent within certain blood lines. If there is a tendency for diabetes in your family, it is carried karmically in your DNA. There are also emotions - ancestral karmic emotions - that are carried within you. There are events that were created by your father’s forefathers five hundred and a thousand and two thousand years ago that you are trying to heal in this lifetime of yours. And you wonder why life can be so difficult and challenging? As we have said, it is not just about you anymore.

< Creator 11 > "It is not about you anymore." Now that you are working in the new energy, you are finding this to be more and more true. It is not about you anymore. You are healing, and have healed, your own past. And now you are healing the pasts of others. There are churches that even understand this concept. They pray for their ancestors. They pray that their ancestors will join them in Heaven no matter what sins have been done. They understand, to a degree, the energy behind this. They understand that there is ancestral karma.

< Creator 12QA > We do not want to define for you what this shift, what this new energy will be like. We do not know. Nobody is there yet. We do know, based on what we see in all of you, that it is creation that happens quickly, but it is of a divine nature. It is not limited to simply creating a grander paycheck, for that will have very little meaning for you. You will find that all things will come to you. You will not have to struggle for them. They will be there.

You will be amazed at how easy it is, and we can tell you now from watching you that there are those who are beginning to experience this. It is so easy that you might have a difficult time accepting it. You might purposely sabotage it to make it difficult. You might feel uncomfortable that there is no struggle, that there is no strain. You might think you are getting something for nothing. In the new energy, as you transition into it, the struggle is gone. The struggle is released.

We will talk more of this in the coming year in our new series. We will talk about it over and over until you are quite tired of it. We will continue to tell you that it is not about you any more. It is not about the old self. Your needs do not need to be fulfilled in the way they were. They will be fulfilled in a new way. You will not have to worry so much about the small details. It will not be about you and how much money you have or how much health you have.

You will transition into a new consciousness where you understand now that you are ones who are in service. You are the ones who are the teachers. And surely all of your needs will come to you appropriately. Understand that it is not Spirit or the angels bringing these to you. It is you creating them. There will be a new balance within, a new vibration within that brings forth all of the appropriate things.

< Ascension 1 > When you are in a situation… let’s say you are in a minor car accident. Do not look anymore and say, "Dear Spirit, dear guides, dear Tobias, what are you trying to tell me? Why did this happen? What am I supposed to know and learn? What did I do wrong?" We will tell you" It is not about you anymore. You are there in direct response to the other individuals, to the other humans and the needs that they have. Your car might have gotten banged up, but dear friends, it is not about you.

< Ascension 1 > Your life, if you choose to accept this potential, will now be in service to others. As you walk into this level of service, your own needs will seemingly be taken care of, automatically. It is not about you anymore. You have transcended that. You have gone beyond that.

< Ascension 1 > Dear friends, you have the choice on this day, at this moment, to be the victim or to be the creator. And we already know what you are choosing! When it is not about you anymore, how could you possibly be a victim? You are there in pure service to others. We have been looking for - recruiting, as you would say - all across your world a group who will be the teachers, who have walked through the difficult and challenging path, who have had the patience to wait until the appropriate time when the energies of the grids would be adjusted, so they could accept their divine self within.

< Ascension 1 > What does this look like for you? What does this look like when you give of yourself in service? What we are seeing right now is that life becomes simpler and easier. The focus is no longer on you, on your challenges. The focus is no longer on "why me." The focus is now of service, of teaching, of helping the others.

< Ascension 1 > There are across your world at this time in August, 2001, approximately 14,000,000 humans who are at this point. They have gone through the journey. They have been waiting patiently these last few years. They are consciously working on bringing in this new divinity. They are at the point of making this decision of being in service. It is a small number, for there are many… there are billions of other humans who will need guides and teachers and those in service. As you give yourself in service, it does not mean giving up your family and your jobs and your friends. It means being in service to them and loving them and understanding now that you have moved to a new level. And you can be a quiet and loving teacher for them.

< Ascension 1 > You wonder about all the aches and the pains. You wonder about your past life karma, and its residues. When you go into the consciousness of not being about you anymore, these things have nothing to stick on anymore. They have nothing to stick on, and so they do not affect you so much. Yes, there is still a transition period in this. Dear friends, there is much work that is taking place within your body, but when it is not about you anymore, how could these things affect you? How could these things affect you?

< Ascension 1 > It was simple. We told you that those who sit here on this day, those who read this, those who hear this, even if it is years from now… we told you on that day, dear friends - and this is what we argued with Cauldre about all week - we told you at this moment with tears in our eyes that - oh, whether you understand or not - you have already ascended. You have already ascended. You have been waiting for this. You have been waiting for something to come down to descend on you. You have been waiting for some great change.

< Ascension 1 > But we tell you, each of you, all who are touched by these words, you have already done it. Surprise! Who did you think would be there waiting for you, when you are the first? What did you think would happen when you ascended? The definition of ascension is when you stay in a body in the same lifetime, but yet move to your next lifetime. And all of you have done that. All of you have made the decisions in these past few years to stay. That is why we are here. That is why the ones who represent the potential of your True Self come in on this day, specifically to applaud. You have gone through the gateway of ascension. Ah, but the joke is that now the hard work begins!

< Ascension 1 > It is not about you anymore. The "you" is from the past. The "you" that you knew before was on the karmic wheel. You went from lifetime to lifetime, trying to resolve and balance (past life aspects : karma). It is not you anymore. You have ascended past that. Indeed their old energies will always be close and always be familiar, but it is not you anymore. Do you understand what we mean? It is not about you. You have moved beyond. You are not seeking ascension anymore. You have ascended.

< Ascension 1 > Yes, there are still vestiges of the old energies (past life aspects : karma). Yes, you are still walking on Earth. That is the trick and the joke of your ascension. You have stayed in your body. You have kept the same contacts, but you have moved to a new level of consciousness while you are here. That is why we have been smiling so much these past few years. As you have struggled for this thing that you called ascension, we knew you had already made the choices.

< Ascension 1 > Now there is work to be done! There is still work that will take place on the inside, as the rest of you (other realities) catches up with your new consciousness (gotten with your new divinity). There will be work to do with others. And dear friends, you will find that in the next year of time, as the final completion of the grid adjustments are done by the Kryon and all of other entities, you will find things are still somewhat chaotic, but you will find new potential coming into you all of the time. As things happen in your life now, we want you to consciously remember - it is not about you. It is now about the service that you chose.

< Ascension 1 > You are here in response to another’s needs, whether it is in the office, or the home, or in public. It is not about you. You are the creator. You are not the victim. You are the creator. You are responding appropriately, even at levels that you may not understand yet. But you are responding to energetic needs of others. When you find yourself in those situations, and you are not so sure what to do, simply breathe. Breathe in your divinity, and the answers will come to you.

< Ascension 2QA > "It is not about you any more" also means that it is not about your karma. It is not about lessons. We did not bump Cauldre (Geoffrey Hoppe) in the head (relating to a story told earlier in the day), trying to get his attention. He simply stepped on a board in the wrong way. It was not about him. It is not about lessons that must be learned. It does not need to be agonized over for days and weeks, wondering what Spirit is trying to tell him. Next time, he will use a chain saw! (audience laughter) It is that simple. It is not about him. It is not about you. You have released. You have walked through. You have finished your contracts. The new pages of your book are empty.

< Ascension 2QA > As we have said, there was an impasse in creation, in this creation, where all things, in a sense, were energetically stuck. They could not go forth. They could not move. Creation, as we and you know it, stopped. It stopped because there was something that needed to be resolved. This is what created the Order of the Arc - the archangels - responsible for projecting their energy into the future to find a solution to this impasse of energy, so that all of the second creation could move forth. What you are doing, as grandiose as it may seem, but as challenging and difficult as it is… by the very work that you are doing as Lightworkers, as human beings is to help resolve this impasse. It is to help things move forward. IT IS NOT ABOUT YOU ANYMORE.

< Ascension 7 > In Lesson One of this series we said, " It is not about you anymore." You are off the karmic cycle. You no longer have to go through karma. It is not about you anymore. When you are in the middle of some conflict with other humans, understand that it is not about you any more. They are still going through their processes. They are still going through their karma. They will engage anybody who happens to be close by and attempt to pull them into the drama. You do not need to go there with them. It is not about you.

< Ascension 7 > When somebody criticizes you, or is angry with you, do not let that energy stick on you. It is about them. It is, dear friends, about your compassion for them and for yourself, compassion to understand they are still walking through their processes. Have compassion to accept them, and not to try to change them. They are choosing their own path. Shame on those who try to place their thoughts, and their desired outcomes on others! Shame on those who feel sorry for the one who begs on the streets! This is not compassion! This is your agenda! Compassion is the understanding of reasons why that human has chosen to be the beggar on the street corner. Honor that dear human for who they are, for what they wear, for how they smell. Honor them, rather than try to change them. It is not about you any more. It is about learning to accept all of these things around you.

< Ascension 8 > You are wise enough now to understand that your world is not coming apart at the seams. You are wise enough now to release that anxiety that you held for so long that perhaps this is the end, the Armageddon. You are wise enough now to understand that this is duality playing in extremes, much like children play in extremes at times. They are trying to find the limits. They are testing their own abilities. They are trying to find the boundaries if there are any, so they play to extremes. That is what is happening on your Earth now. That is what you can expect. As we have said at the beginning of this Ascension Series, it is not about you any more. It is not. The world is evolving and expanding. And from our perspective, it is all a beautiful and wonderful thing. It is all part of a process.

< Ascension 10 > You have just given birth to New Energy! You are the parent of yourself. Think about it. Think about it. Perhaps now you have a better understanding when we say, "It is not just about you any more." You are the parent of many children of yourself, giving them identity from a lifetime that you walked through and then setting them free, so they can go out, too, and become creators much like you. But, you are the only ones… you are the only ones who will have this type of parenting or identity-creating capability. The aspects of yourself that you send out, that you free so that they can go and develop their own, will not have the same type of creator ability in terms of releasing aspects of themselves.

< DivineHuman 6 > "How is it that the answer could have been so simple, yet overlooked for all these years?" We tell you that it is because of the work that you and other humans on this spiritual path have been doing. We have said to you before - it is not about you anymore. You are going through all these processes within. You are changing your consciousness. You are raising the consciousness of the planet. What happens when you raise consciousness? It expands outwards! You illuminate a new level of consciousness to the whole world. Then, when your scientists, when your engineers, when all of your leaders go to do their work, your consciousness change allows them to come to new understandings, new discoveries.

< DivineHuman 6 > Dear friends, life will have its challenges. But, as we have said, "It’s not about you." You will see conflict all around you. You will be called to new places. You will be called to different types of work. Remember, it’s not about you. Remember that in every situation you are involved in, you, God, have already come up with the answer. Get out of that human brain, the one that is in fear and panic. Sit in the middle of difficult situations and watch how the Divine Solution unfolds in your life. It will unfold in your life.

< DivineHuman 10 > There are still difficulties and challenges in your life. But stop and feel for a moment. Of all the challenges in your life, how many relate to situations with other people? How many are just within yourself? The vast majority of your problems are because you are involved with other people. You get involved in their lives. And, that is honorable in many ways. But yet you take on their problems as your own… problems with your children… problems at work… problems with friends. You read the newspapers, and you absorb the problems off the front page as your own.

It is time for that to end. It is time to recognize that unto yourself you are whole and complete. There truly are not many difficulties or challenges in your own life right now. Yes, indeed some of you have imbalances in your body because you have taken on the energies of so many other people, so many other things. When you let that go, your body can come back into balance.

< DivineHuman 11QA > Understand it is truly not about you when things happen. They are trying to feed themselves. They are trying to find their fulfillment. They will be attracted to you, particularly the ones who you have known before, because they feel that you have something to satisfy their hunger. However, they think that if they take a bite out of you, it will do the job, if they take something from you. So, many of them will try to do that. It is not about you. They are the hungry dogs. Dear friends, we ask you to remember that the experiences that come to you are there for a reason. But, it is not about you. You can now apply your full energies to being totally in service, if that is what you choose.

< NewEnergy 5 > So, dear friends, the journey indeed is done… unless you want to continue on it. A whole new way of living and experiencing begins. It all shifts. No more chasing. It comes to you. It all finds its way to you. We will say that over, and over, and over again until you truly realize it. It comes to you. You don't have to choose any more - how to say - challenges in your life right now. When you think about it, dear Shaumbra… when you think about it, the vast, vast majority of the challenges in your life right now aren't even about you. They are things you are taking on from other people. You're taking on their challenges and their pains. You're taking on a nurturing role for them that sometimes causes a dependency. It certainly causes a burden on you.

< NewEnergy 5 > Without trying to be overly specific, we would say that 90 percent of the problems in your life right now, the difficulties, are related to other people. Only a small amount is truly about yourself. It is time to let that go also. At least acknowledge it for what it is, but also to let it go. We will talk about that in a moment. Sometimes you think life is so difficult and challenging that if you let go of their problems and allow them to live their lives - yes, totally - you will have so little burden. Now, many of you will also feel that you have very little to do because you have been so busy trying to take care of others and carry their burdens. But, dear friends, we will tell you right now there is so much to do in the New Energy.

< Clarity 9QA > It has been a difficult month because you are quite sensitive and Shaumbra in general is quite sensitive. You were feeling this whole, very thick and very heavy energy on Earth right now and so many of you take it on as your own. You take it on as your own issue. We keep encouraging you to understand that it's not about you. You are just feeling this Old Energy Earth and New Energy Earth deciding to postpone the marriage for a while.

It's a good opportunity to remind Shaumbra, once again - again and again - it's truly not about you. You are feeling things that are taking place on Earth, sometimes you're feeling past life aspects, sometimes you are feeling new energies rolling in. You pretend - not just you, dear, but Shaumbra in general - you pretend that it's about you. You pretend that you created some sort of difficulty in your lives, but you're really just feeling other people's energy and the energy of mass consciousness in all. If you allow yourself to not let that inhibit you or affect your own life, you're going to be a much better and wiser teacher to the others.

< Clarity 10 > If you could, feel for a moment back to your spiritual families. It's not important to know the name, but just feel the energy of your own spiritual family. Their energy has been, in a sense, frozen or at an impasse, waiting in a holding pattern, but now it is moving once again. Now you can begin to feel an energy shift even at these highest levels. So there is quite a bit of activity outside of your realm. Quite a bit of activity in the angelic realm, Shaumbra. That's why you continue to feel movement... and it's not just about you, it's happening on all these different realms... continuing to feel the shift and the change of energy.

< Teacher 1 > One of the reasons why we've said to you over and over again "It's not about you," has been in preparation for being a teacher because it's going to be very easy to pick up on their thoughts and feelings and emotions and, if you're not careful, to take them as your own, because you are highly empathetic. You are very much a feeling being. So understand when you are in this type of situation, it's not about you. You're just picking up on them.

< QLCeleb 4 > Because of your love and because of your service, you have been carrying the issues of humanity deep within you, your bodies and your minds and your everyday life. You've been acting out the dramas of others, the issues of others. You've been trying to resolve them. You've been trying to work through their issues in order to assist and to serve them and to a degree it has helped.

< QLCeleb 4 > But in this "I" energy that we are now in, it is time to let that go. That disease is not yours. That conflict in your head is not yours. That sadness is not yours. That depression is not yours. That lack of abundance does not belong to you - and you claim that it does. You claim that it's yours, it's some punishment, it's some imbalance, it's some imperfection - and it's not. You've dressed yourself in the clothing of human suffering in order to understand it and to have compassion for it. You've taken on these issues as a grand master angel in order to completely familiarize yourself with it so that you could assist in this whole process of consciousness evolution. But it's not yours.

< Returning 8QA > As you allow yourself to absolutely absorb all of these feelings, understanding they're not yours, you also read into and tap into all of the different potentials, all the different realities that exist, and all of the different facets. This provides a tremendous inspiration to you and a totally different way of looking at life. Rather than on a very linear path based on history and linear future, you now see that it is so much more encompassing and actually a lot more fun.

< e2012 4 > So as the wisdom, golden sweet honey-like essence just dripping into your life … and it is coming in. It is here actually; it's just for you to open your eyes to. As it does, you're going to realize that about 90 percent of everything that you buy into about yourself is not yours. It's about other people, mass consciousness, aspects, past lives and all the rest of that. It's not yours. About 10 percent is yours. It's what you're choosing. Even the thought that flashes through your head right now isn't yours until you actually choose it.

< freedom 4 > I've said this before, subject to a lot of debate from the outside, but 95 percent of the things that are holding you down really aren't yours. They're coming from relationships, from the outside, mass consciousness and all the rest of that, but they're not yours. Let's make this the year of no more old relationships. I want every relationship is started anew. No more old relationships.

< discovery 2 > Basically, digesting belief systems that really weren't yours. It created the other traumatic events, and you weren't seeing what really happened. You were blaming it on that experience saying, “I made a mistake. I did something that good girls shouldn't do. I did something that hurt somebody else.” But, you see, you didn't have the perspective or the awareness of where that came from, why that was there. It was there because of belief systems that you took in that weren't yours.