< Discovery 6 > “I, not you.” This is very, very important for you to recognize – very important – and it's just a shift of perspective. A Master speaks only of the I. The Master just speaks as I. “You never do what I say. You don't care about me. You don't love me. You've been like this forever.” You see? You see the energy in that? It's power and it's projection.
< Discovery 6 > You see, and whether you're actually saying the words, or whether you're just feeling that inside – you don't actually have to say it – it changes the dynamic in the situation. First of all, it keeps you within you, because the minute you start saying to another person, “Well, you did this” or “You did that,” suddenly you're no longer in the I Am. You are in the “they are.” When you stay in the I, the I Am – “I like not having to sit in traffic. I like going on vacations to Kauai” not “You never take me anyplace” – it totally changes the dynamics.
< Discovery 6 > You're going to start being aware of how often you do the “you” thing – projecting – and particularly on the people closest to you, but also at the office. Express what you're desiring, what you're choosing. It's I, not you. And now it's going to be a little awkward at first, because there is that tendency to lash out, to throw it back on somebody else. Now you're playing power. Now you are no longer in the I Am.